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Nikah,a marriage agreement between BRIDEGROOM and BRIDE is incomplete without applicable Mahr, must practically and religiously be decided by these two parties only but it looses the essence when the Mahr is decided by the PARENTS of bridegroom and bride who bargain the Mahr in the form of cash, gold or property to the extent the two families are satisfied at their elite thirst. This bargain derails and devalues the Nikah objective. Yes,parents can pay on behalf but cannot decide the Mahr which is and must be decided by the bridegroom and bride exclusively,none other. The transition of decision shift from the two parties to respective parents is the basis of whole lot of girls getting Nikahless. Frankly speaking i feel it is more a bank deal instead of Nikah.More Mahr decided by parents is no security of a quality bond and quality life afterwards. Mahr could be even verbatum quranic verses as declared by Prophet SAW. Unless and until we understand the purpose of Nikah,it is useless to lead a purposeful life.
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